Question and Advice On Underage Girls Sharing Naked Photos With Older Boys

Hello Everyone!

I am sharing a question that I stumbled upon and responded. Are you reading my mind before I tell you that it was on Quora? If so, you are a good mind reader. I remember having a discussion about having nudes on the phone when Tom was in middle school. I told him to get rid of the picture even if it is offered by a young lady. Just admire and delete and don’t even respond that you received the unsolicited photo. I told him it was child pornography and you do not want to get involved in any potential legal nonsense. The older a young man gets, the more tricky and sticky a situation can get. If an 18-year old young man gets caught with an underage picture on their phone, they can go to jail here in the United States. This can happen if you asked for it or not! I personally believe that ownership of the crime lies with the sender. Especially if it was not even requested. If a girl is doing it, she is seeking attention from the young man. Please don’t fall for the trap and block the number if you have to after telling her to stop doing it. If a parent of the daughter wanted to press charges, now you are walking around as a registered sex offender, at the very least. Melissa has a friend who told her about a young man who did two years in jail for having underage girls nude on his phone. That is scary and not necessary at all since it can be prevented. The delete and block features are very helpful under these situations. Here is the posed question below and my response to the question:

POSED QUESTION:

“I’m 17 and was asking a 14-year-old to send (private) photos of themselves (jokingly). People got my info and said I’m getting reported. What do I do?”

MY RESPONSE:

“Ooohh!! Be careful with that!! You are at that age where you are in the danger zone. You can actually be charged with a sex crime if you were 18-years old. If someone, such as a parent, wanted to press charges, you would end up fighting for your life. The last thing you want is to be registered as a sex offender for the rest of your life. That kind of a criminal record can stain you for the rest of your life. Everything from college, sports, job opportunities, relationships, housing, and other things we didn’t previously think about. If I were in your shoes, I would claim that someone hacked into my phone through an app. You had to bring the phone to the cell phone carrier to wipe your phone clean and reset passwords and everything. Once you get safely away from that situation, that is a lesson learned to avoid that subject moving forward. One of my son’s heard about a kid, in middle school, that had to go in front of a judge because an under age girl sent him nudes. The kid got busted since he saved them in his phone. The mother of the girl came after the young man and his family legally. That is so not good to get caught up in but it is stuff that can happen. Regardless of whether or not she sent them, you cannot have them saved on your phone. It is considered child pornography and you are in danger of being labeled as a sex offender. Hopefully, the person said that to scare you. Delete anything and everything from your phone and keep your nose clean from now on. Restore your phone to factory settings. I sincerely wish you make good choices moving forward and good luck!” -Leslie M. Jasper

Here is the link to the Crime Scene platform on Quora where it was posted:

What advice would you give to a young person stuck in this predicament? Would your advice be similar? Would it be way different? Are you capable of even discussing a sensitive subject like this with your teen? For the people with young children, these are the topics that you must be prepared to discuss with your teens. If not, they will come on these public forums after the fact seeking advice. It is cool that a forum like this exists. If they want to send it out anonymously, that is an option. I have had many chats with my sons that would make the average person cringe. It is necessary, in my eyes, to leave nothing off the table of discussion. They have a level of comfort that I never had as a kid. I have preached about wearing protection and no drinking and driving until I am blue in the face. I hang out with my friends and crash at their house if I am drinking. I can never say that I have not driven while technically drunk in my whole . However, efforts are made to avoid that if I can. Yes, I know I have said this in my blog several times. It is intended for any young person reading my blog. You can never say it enough. I wish you all a good Monday wherever you are in the globe. I sincerely thank you for stopping by and checking out my content. Peace out, cub scout!

Cheers!

Leslie M. Jasper

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