Advice On How To Avoid Gold Diggers

Hello Everyone!

I have a few requests for me to respond to some questions on Quora. I kind of chuckle whenever I hear the term “gold digger”. I don’t know why I laugh at it or people caught up in the web. It is like bathroom humor. I have no idea why it is funny. It is just funny. I used to think that gold diggers won’t impact me as a female. However, I have dealt with a male gold digger back in the day. I tend to be a generous person so I don’t mind pitching in on paying for things. However, it got to where the guy would put grocery items in the cart not intended for us to share. It was a long distance relationship so I was not popping up at his house to eat the food during the week day. Who knows if he was using the groceries I bought to feed a side chick during the week. I finally put my foot down and stopped the nonsense and walked away. He would have taken advantage of me forever if I had continued to allow it. The funny thing is, after a year of no contact, he reaches to to try to continue a friendship. I am cordial and don’t like to make enemies with my exes. I would never go back to that relationship if you paid me. Here is my advice on how to spot a gold digger. Let me know if you see anything missing and what you would add?

POSED QUESTION:

“What are some telltale signs that a lady is only interested in you for her own gain?”

-Quora Question

MY RESPONSE:

The signs of a gold digger…hhmm…

  1. She wants to know what you do for a living?
  2. She is profiling you by asking questions geared towards figuring out what you can afford and can’t afford
  3. She will reveal all of the things she has, famous people she knows
  4. She keeps up with the Joneses religiously
  5. Her sense of entitlement is super high
  6. She is always in some form of financial crisis-asks for cash
  7. She does absolutely nothing for you!
  8. You do everything for her!
  9. She expects to be treated like a princess
  10. Some aspect of who you are benefits her tremendously
  11. She knows that you come from a family with financial means
  12. You have made her aware that you can “take care of her”
  13. She asks prying questions about your finances
  14. She will reject gifts that come from the heart since they have no value to her
  15. She leverages sex to get what she wants from you
  16. She never pays ever!!
  17. She starts fights and accept gifts as an apology
  18. She doesn’t show an interest in you- your favorite color, food, likes/dislikes
  19. She is not a good listener
  20. She lives an extravagant lifestyle and not into saving any money
  21. Quality time with you is not a priority. She would rather be with her friends
  22. She has no ambition for a career or no goals
  23. She won’t get attached to you at all since you are temporary
  24. Her friends are also gold diggers- check out the company she keeps
  25. She is absolutely obsessed with status in society and showing off her status
  26. Her romantic interests are more and more wealthy. This is called hypergamy or “monkey branching”
  27. She is out of your league. Meaning, if you were poor, she would not give you the time of day
  28. She will check out the people on social media thinking she deserves to live that life
  29. She dresses as if she is already rich
  30. She is on her absolute BEST behavior

I sure hope that you never run into a woman, or a man no less, with the qualities above. After initially getting an ego boost when finding a good looking woman, that feeling won’t last. Being with a person because of your finances is not the best life. When you get older and your health declines, your gold digger will not be by your side. Find your best life and be happy. Good people will come when the universe thinks you are ready. I wish you good luck!

https://www.quora.com/What-are-some-telltale-signs-that-a-lady-is-only-interested-in-you-for-her-own-gain/answer/Leslie-Jasper-3?prompt_topic_bio=1

I thank you for stopping by my little world to either read or listen to my creative work. Yay!! It’s the weekend!! As stated a million times previously, I appreciate feedback, comments, and suggestions. I wish you a peaceful day on your side of the world. Hopefully, you are experiencing great weather that continues this weekend. You are appreciated and I hope you get a laugh or two our of my tall tales and detailed observations. I shall harass ya again soon enough so have a fabulous Friday! Peace out, Cub Scout my friends! 😛

Cheers!
Leslie M. Jasper

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