My Interpretation On Rejection And The Silent Treatment

Hello Everyone!

Every once in awhile, I am requested to answer a question on Quora that just really annoys the hell out of me! This posed question is a prime example. I don’t know if it was posed with a person with a language barrier or not. Perhaps I read it wrong?? I’m not certain either way. I felt like the writer was mad that their manipulation, via rejection, did not work as planned on the other person. Either party dishing out the silent treatment and/or rejection was trying to manipulate the other person’s emotions. Mixed feelings would unfold for either party after years, months, or weeks of constant or periodic arguing and giving the silent treatment. If you cannot figure out how to agree and have some form of peace, you should expect the other party to want to check out emotionally at some point. When you keep pushing a person away, eventually they will stop wanting to fight for the relationship. Not everyone had the mental fortitude to keep sticking around in a challenging relationship. I hate when people play games! (ggrr!) I interpret the writer as pushing the person to the point to where they are no longer able to predict subsequent behavior. Now that the behavior is unreadable, they are asking for advice on how to respond with the intent of roping the person back in. I also interpret that writer as only pointing out the behavior of the other party with no accountability on their own behavior. Each time you give a person the silent treatment, just be prepared for them to have enough and possibly walk. If they do walk, that is on both of you for not trying to end the war. Relationships are about compromise and creating a peaceful realm of cohabitation. Who the hell always wants to be in a war zone? Well…do you think I read the question correctly? Did I read it wrong? Leave your input in the comment section below. Here is the posed question and my response below:

POSED QUESTION:

“If someone regrets ignoring you and is too arrogant to text you first after rejection but instead of gives you mixed signals, how do you react?”

-Manana Jguburia

MY RESPONSE:

“If you rejected them, why the hell do you care about their behavior?? What are you expecting?? Rejection will make a person not act properly or ignore you. If a person has feelings, the mixed signals will make sense after a rejection. Are you rejecting them and hoping that they act crazy and kiss your ass to get back into your good graces?? If so, you are playing games and YOU are the terrible communicator. Mean what you say and say what you mean. Good luck!!”

-Leslie M. Jasper

https://www.quora.com/If-someone-regrets-ignoring-you-and-is-too-arrogant-to-text-you-first-after-rejection-but-instead-of-gives-you-mixed-signals-how-do-you-react

Thanks so much for stopping by on my side of the globe today. Within a sea of other writers, you are the best for choosing my writing projects. Feel free to drop feedback, questions on my content, or just show some love. I have a few more Quora questions and my responses to share with you. I have worked on them while on my night walk this past week. I walk at night since it is cooler and more calm. I am not a huge fan of heat and humidity unless I am in the pool or at a water park with a drink in my hand. Believe it or not, we are half way through the summer already. Enjoy what is left and go out and make the best of it in your free time. Therefore, have a fabulous Tuesday afternoon either solo or with friends and/or family. It is time to get through the work week however you do when your family depends on you. Try to keep cool and safe this new week people! Peace out, Cub Scout!

CONSTRUCTION TALES- TOLD BY A WOMAN: (5) SHORT STORIES ON AMAZON!

Yes, yes, yes, I have shared this new release of my (5) Kindle Vella Library short stories in a few of my other blog posts within the last weeks. They are short stories that will become the makings of my next book within the #ConstructionTales series that will be entitled, Construction Tales: Volume II: My Illuminated Path Continues.. Construction Tales: Told By A Woman by Leslie M. Jasper- short stories for Kindle Vella on Amazon:

Construction Tales- Told By A Woman For Kindle Vella On Amazon

Cheers!
Leslie M. Jasper

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