Advice On Psychological Attachment Via Favors

Hello Everyone!

How are you spending your time on your Friday evening that is the last day of 2021!? However you plan to spend your evening, I hope you are safe, happy, and healthy for the Year 2022. I’m sad to have learned that Ms. Betty White has passed away today a few weeks shy of her 100th birthday. I’m disappointed for her that she didn’t achieve that amazing milestone. However, she is no longer in pain and will be forever young. I decided to pull some more questions from Quora so that we can review and discuss. This chosen topic is about, “the psychological saying that “asking a favour from someone makes him or her to develop attachment for you over time”. I believe this topic speaks about a smaller portion of the global population. It hinges on the personality and the culture of where the person belongs within a society. I believe we are submerged in a global society of people who feel entitled for others to do for them. If a person feels entitled, how are they going to form any style of attachment to the person who does things them? I don’t personally understand how anyone thinks they are entitled to the actions of others. I’ve been in a world where I am used to doing for myself. If anyone does anything for me, I feel absolutely compelled to return the favor. I’m aware that I am not the only one on the planet and my way is not the only way. How do you feel about this subject matter? If your interpretation varies significantly different than mine, let me know. If you are co-signing on my interpretation, I’d appreciate knowing that you belong to #TeamLeslie. 🙂 Here is the posed question and my response listed below:

POSED QUESTION:

“How valid is the psychological saying that “asking a favour from someone makes him or her to develop attachment for you over time”?”

By Harikirtan Worlu

MY RESPONSE:

“In my personal experience, the only people who are impacted are people who are highly loyal people who impose zero expectations on others. When you live life under those conditions, you handle your own business and do not expect anything from anyone. If someone does something for you, it is of a high meaning and very valuable. Those people will feel indebted to the other person. It is considered to be somewhat of attachment where you feel like you need to pay back the favor when called upon to do so. On the other hand, if you expect stuff from others, via entitlement, you won’t feel compelled to return the favor since you expect it to come to you. I wish you luck only surrounding yourself with souls that match your energy and nature.”

By Leslie M. Jasper

https://www.quora.com/How-valid-is-the-psychological-saying-that-asking-a-favour-from-someone-makes-him-or-her-to-develop-attachment-for-you-over-time/answer/Leslie-Jasper-3?prompt_topic_bio=1

I thank you for checking out your New York homie here on my blog. As I said above, let me know your thoughts on my approach to the posed Quora question? Leave your feedback in the comment section down below. I’m sharing my latest (7) podcast episodes that are listed down below from The Verbally Disastrous Podcast, via links for Spotify & YouTube down below. If you are into reading on a Kindle, check out my newest short story release that belongs to my Construction Tales-Told By A Woman Kindle Vella Library short story series on Amazon down below. Short story #9 is entitled, “I’m Working On The Railroad With The Tools As A Chick!”. I released short story #9 and it went live this past month. I have to finish editing short story #10 so that is coming very soon. If anyone has read any of my other short stories, by all means let me know what you think? I have some irons in the fire as far as some more upcoming podcast guests for after the holidays. I even have an acquaintance who is a practicing Satanist. I’m curious as to his/her path from transitioning from being a Catholic to a Satanist. I have sent out the questions so he/she can prepare for the interview. Melissa and I need to find time to discuss our impending topic on our most embarrassing moments. It’s now time for me to work on getting ready to ring in the New 2022 Year! Now go carry on with your Friday evening plans now that we have arrived at the New Year’s Eve holiday. I wish you a great morning/afternoon/evening on your side of the globe and a restful or productive day!

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Verbally Disastrous Presents- Season #1, Episode #39: Part A-Most Random Encounters!! on YouTube:

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Verbally Disastrous Season #1, Ep. #41: Part A- Working On The Railroad With The Tools As A Chick! on YouTube:

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Verbally Disastrous! Season #1, Episode #43: Part A- Tramping In Cali! on YouTube:

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Verbally Disastrous! Season #1, Episode #45: Part C- Tramping In Cali! on YouTube:

I received an email about this podcast platform that is called, “Reason” and it can be found on http://www.Reason.FM. Have you ever heard of Reason? I’m not sure if it is old and I’m just hearing about it now? If you are a podcaster, you have a new podcast platform to discover and get on yourself. I have to update my Press Kit to include this podcast platform. Here are the links to both the audio blog and podcast below.

https://reason.fm/podcast/the-verbally-disastrous-podcast-and-construction-tales-blog

https://reason.fm/podcast/the-verbally-disastrous-podcast-with-leslie-m-jasper-and-co-host-melissa-polito

I shared my latest short story that has been loaded up to my Construction Tales-Told By A Woman Kindle Vella Library on Amazon recently. The latest short story is entitled: #9: “I’m Working On The Railroad With The Tools As A Chick!”. I decided to write about some stories from when I worked with the tools on the railroad. I shared a story of saving a co-worker from a near death experience! I hope you learn something from this short story. There are more to come. This short story is now also available as two Verbally Disastrous podcast episodes.

Construction Tales- Told By A Woman: (9) Kindle Vella Short Stories On Amazon!!

Construction Tales- Told By A Woman: (9) Kindle Vella Short Stories On Amazon

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https://www.photacularimagery.com/

Cheers!
Leslie M. Jasper

-Author And Host of the #VerballyDisastrous podcast now alive on many platforms that include: Acast, Amazon Music, Anchor, Apple Podcasts, Breaker, Castbox, Deezer, Google Podcasts, I Heart Radio, Listen Notes, Overcast, Pandora Podcasts, Player FM, Pocket Casts, Pod Bean, Podchaser, Podcast Addict, Podcast Gang, Radio Public, Reason, Soundcloud, Soundtrap, Spotify, Stitcher, Tune In, and YouTube.

-The Audio Blog: Verbally Disastrous Podcast And Construction Tales Blog. Now available on: Acast, Amazon Music, Anchor, Apple Podcasts, Breaker, Castbox, Deezer, Google Podcasts, I Heart Radio, Listen Notes, Overcast, Pandora Podcasts, Player FM, Pocket Casts, Pod Bean, Podchaser, Podcast Addict, Podcast Gang, Radio Public, Reason, Soundcloud, Spotify, Stitcher, and Tune In.

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