How Long Do You Wait To Hear The “L” Word?

Hello Everyone!

I found another question request that I guess came from a very young person. This question has a name. However, I cannot tell if it is male or female. I blame this on a female!! 😛 I would like to believe that it is a female that taps their foot waiting for their boyfriend to say “I love you”. Why pressure a person to drop that phrase? People should enjoy the moment and ride that high of endorphins for as long as possible. Instead of thinking there is something wrong, just relish in those random acts of kindness. One never knows if and when a snag in the road will happen. Therefore, just relax and enjoy the romantic ride for as long as possible. The constant release of endorphins during the initial stages of a relationship, especially with mutual chemistry, is better than any drug. Love is mighty powerful. It is the reason for wars, fist fights, movies, songs, good or bad habits, jail time, murder, etc. As much as some people say they don’t want it, they are lying. Everyone seeks to be loved. The only thing they don’t want is the bad experiences. This need prevails no matter how damaged they are from bad experiences. People who do not hear the proclamation fast enough, will question the entire relationship. Love is so powerful, it holds people in situations that are logically not good for them. Love will make a person commit homicide if another person invades their relationship. Each time a person experiences a cheating partner, this act totally wrecks the mind and spirit of a previously devoted lover. Despite wanting to hear those words for the first time, it is best to bask in the glow of a new relationship. Here is the posed question and my response as well.

POSED QUESTION:

My BF called me awesome and kisses my forehead but hasn’t said I love you yet. What does it mean?

Quora Question

MY RESPONSE:

It doesn’t mean anything bad. It is a tender moment that you shared. Don’t be in a hurry to pressure your boyfriend to say “I love you”. Let it flow and come out when the time is right. Do not over analyze the fact it has not yet be said. I’d rather have someone say it organically vs being pressured to express it. Then it is not real if said under pressure. I have no idea how long you have been dating. For some folks, it takes them months or year or more to find the right moment to confess their love for their partner. Kisses on the forehead is very sweet and endearing. It is such a sweet and tender thing to do to your partner. Again, don’t rush the next level. Enjoy the sweet and new phases of your relationship. Don’t look into things that are not there. There is no time frame for the “L” word. Just enjoy this part in life and relish in it. Live in the current moment and don’t try to over analyze it. That phase could end and the relationship can become hum drum. Over time, people may back off with those little moments of sweetness. You wasted those precious moments by not living in the now and enjoying the butterflies. Enjoy it now with no expectations and see where it goes. For your sake, I hope the kindness continues and you get affirmation of your boyfriend’s feelings for you. I most sincerely wish you luck and much happiness!

Leslie M. Jasper

The link to leave your comment or read other comments:

https://www.quora.com/My-BF-called-me-awesome-and-kisses-my-forehead-but-hasn-t-said-I-love-you-yet-What-does-it-mean/answer/Leslie-Jasper-3?prompt_topic_bio=1

What do you think about the posed question? Do you also believe the young lady is getting ahead of herself? Do you go out of your mind when your lover drags their feet with the “L” word? I think there should be no pressure on that moment. It takes away from the moment by applying unnecessary pressure to a relationship. If you are in the early stages of a relationship, enjoy it for how long it lasts. Sad but true; those tender moments do not always last for the duration of a relationshp. If you get the benefits of years of lasting love, DON’T take it for granted. I wish everyone to get what they seek in life (within reason). I hope you are ready for the upcoming work week. I wish you a peaceful Sunday on your side of the globe and a great upcoming week!

Cheers!
Leslie M. Jasper

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