What To Do In The Friend Zone?

Hello Everyone!

I have been working on my endurance for the past year. I used to run on the treadmill or roll on the elliptical when I was younger. Due to my back problems, I do miles of walking each day that takes time to accomplish. I just came in from working on walking 8.32 miles today and 6.39 miles yesterday. Sometimes, I listen to YouTube videos. Other times, I will answer questions that were requested by others on Quora while I am walking. Here is an interesting question to share here as well as my response below.

THE POSED QUESTION:

What does it mean “he just want to be friends and nothing more”?

On Quora

MY RESPONSE:

I believe that when a love interest just wants to be friends, they don’t want to completely lose you. The person sees something in you worth salvaging as a friend. However, they keep searching for key qualities in a new partner. Apparently, they didn’t find those key qualities in you. Armed with this knowledge, you can either choose to be a friend or remove yourself entirely. It is possible that a person puts someone in the friend zone as Plan B. Then they go to pursue Plan A. If that doesn’t work out, they always have Plan B waiting to be chosen again. It is up to you to wait or find someone who will pick YOU as Plan A. I wish you luck!

Leslie M. Jasper

To leave a comment on Quora on the posed question:

https://www.quora.com/What-does-it-mean-he-just-want-to-be-friends-and-nothing-more/answer/Leslie-Jasper-3?prompt_topic_bio=1

Yes, I realize that not every time we go on a path to explore a relationship will work out. We are not going to be everyone’s cup of tea. I feel sorry for anyone who sticks around waiting to become the girlfriend/boyfriend of a person who put them in the friend zone. You must be realistic about the situation and be willing to move on. I can’t think of a single person who I would be willing to be their Plan B. Nor do I want a person to be my Plan B. What do you think about it when a person says that they want to just be friends and nothing more? I hope you chalk it up to just not working and ride off into the sunset. Do not think you can make anyone change their mind. It is not fair to you and them to not take the hint. It is a kind way of letting someone down easy. Yes, people do not deserve to be dropped on their heads for just not having the qualities you need. In this case, it is the kindest thing you can do to a person. If you have a thought on the topic, drop a comment below. I hope you are ready for the upcoming work week. I wish you a peaceful Sunday on your side of the globe and a great upcoming week!

Cheers!
Leslie M. Jasper

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