Advice On Why People Have Different Styles of Communication

Hello Everyone!

I hope you are having a way better weekend than myself. I had to watch my Honda go on a flatbed to head to the junkyard. It was considered a total loss so I have to pick out another set of wheels at some point. The whole entire process is painful. Thank God for insurance. I have been cleaning up a mess from the flood in the basement for the past two days. It is finally in better shape. We got rid of the items that grow mold. I found some more questions geared for me on Quora and this one caught my eye. It discusses why each person has a way different style of communication. Obviously, I am not afraid of speaking whether it is answering questions or crafting my own. However, I have been known to sit back and observe when I can get away with it. What is your communication style? Do you tend to rub people the wrong way when you communicate? Here is the posed question and my offered response below. I am giving you a reminder that both the Audio Blog and Podcast are now on Amazon Music. My latest Podcast Episode is #33 that covers Hurricane Ida. Check out the Q & A down below for now.

POSED QUESTION:

“Why do some people love talking your ear off but other people you need pliers to get them to say anything?”

Chris Schmehl

MY RESPONSE:

“People behave differently in various social settings that also vary by geographic regions and culture. People have different childhood experiences that form who they become as adults. Some people are very confident with themselves and how they deliver their message so they freely engage in banter with others. Some women of the world come from a culture of “don’t speak until spoken to” so they follow the rules. Meanwhile, other women on the globe have no restrictions, other than group opinion, so they speak freely and openly when prompted by another party. A rural community more than likely, unless you are Amish, has a culture where people who are very open to chats with random strangers. Meanwhile, it is quite normal to be dead silent within an elevator group while living in large, metropolitan cities. Some folks are more comfortable observing other folks instead of first speaking. They may need some level of comfort before openly speaking. Some people rely on a bottle of booze to become the life of the party. I worked, as an electrician, years ago on a Hasidic Jewish compound. I was told that the men were not allowed to speak or look at me. However, an elder spoke to me admiring my “craftswomanship” when no one was looking. (That’s a future Verbally Disastrous Podcast topic) I come from many years in the construction industry so I don’t fear anyone so I will openly engage with someone when they speak with me.. However, I prefer to first observe the dynamics of a group in the beginning. We can’t control the behaviors of others. We can only control what we say and do. Maybe it’s your turn to break the ice with someone. Instead of wondering why a person doesn’t chime in, why don’t you take control of they dynamics and ask them what they are interested in? You would be surprised with the nugget of wisdom that you can extract from a quiet observer in the room. I wish you luck and success is future social settings.”

Leslie M. Jasper

https://www.quora.com/Why-do-some-people-love-talking-your-ear-off-but-other-people-you-need-pliers-to-get-them-to-say-anything/answer/Leslie-Jasper-3?prompt_topic_bio=1

Let me know what you think about the advice? Now, try to enjoy what is left of Sunday Funday on this nice sunny day. The two Amazon Music links to both the Audio Blog and Podcast at the bottom of this post below. Here is my latest podcast that was released last week. Check out Podcast Episode #33: Hurricane Ida Visited New York City Last Week!! that is on the podcast platform of choice and YouTube. I thank you for stopping by my blog. I wish you a good Sunday morning/afternoon/evening on your side of the globe this week.

Here is the link to the Verbally Disastrous Podcast on Spotify:

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Verbally Disastrous Presents-Season #1, Episode #33: Hurricane Ida Visited New York City Last Week!! on YouTube:

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https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/70d27d76-db75-4a3a-a14f-b7555ebf4c4e/the-verbally-disastrous-podcast-construction-tales-blog

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The Verbally Disastrous Podcast With Leslie M. Jasper and Co-Host Melissa Polito on Amazon Music:

https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/2f413800-aa53-435b-a238-0c62172e4f06/the-verbally-disastrous-podcast-with-leslie-m-jasper-and-co-host-melissa-polito

CONSTRUCTION TALES- TOLD BY A WOMAN: (7) SHORT STORIES ON AMAZON!!

I released another short story on working with one of the worst apprentices, who earned the nickname Lucky, in the history of my career. The unique thing about this guy was that EVERYONE I worked with also had huge challenges working with the guy. As an apprentice, it is our obligation to teach them as journeyman/woman. In turn, it is their obligation to absorb what we teach and move accordingly. I even took the time to break down the task into a step-by-step method. He would then go do what he wanted and it was an absolute disaster. Out of anyone in the shop, I had the most patience with him. This is a guy that would never ever be able to become a contractor and work on his own. He was missing many key characteristics that it takes in order to work on a project from cradle to grave solo. I now have shared (7) short stories to my Kindle Vella Library. They are short stories that will become the makings of my next book within the #ConstructionTales series that will be entitled, Construction Tales: Volume II: My Illuminated Path Continues.. Construction Tales: Told By A Woman by Leslie M. Jasper- short stories for Kindle Vella on Amazon:

Construction Tales-Told By A Woman For Kindle Vella On Amazon

Cheers!
Leslie M. Jasper

-Author And Host of the #VerballyDisastrous podcast now alive on many platforms that include: Acast, Amazon Music, Anchor, Apple Podcasts, Breaker, Castbox, Deezer, Google Podcasts, I Heart Radio, Listen Notes, Overcast, Pandora Podcasts, Player FM, Pocket Casts, Pod Bean, Podchaser, Podcast Addict, Podcast Gang, Radio Public, Soundcloud, Soundtrap, Spotify, Stitcher, Tune In, and YouTube.

-The Audio Blog: Verbally Disastrous Podcast And Construction Tales Blog. Now available on: Acast, Amazon Music, Anchor, Apple Podcasts, Breaker, Castbox, Deezer, Google Podcasts, I Heart Radio, Listen Notes, Overcast, Pandora Podcasts, Player FM, Pocket Casts, Pod Bean, Podchaser, Podcast Addict, Podcast Gang, Radio Public, Soundcloud, Spotify, Stitcher, and Tune In.

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